The dream?

U probably have the notion of keeping Ur Ex as a spare ( staying in contact, keeping a distance, etc..). in reality, U have the desire to go to Barbados, and he live there. So, deep inside U think that it is better to go to him (because his house was renovated , & his fridge is nice & bigger). WELL , it is bigger that WHOSE ? I think that U have done some calculations regarding ur intrests.I hope u also figured the feelings of the other party as well.